The Giving Tree: Coleen and James 

By those they loved, Coleen and James were described as soul mates. Coleen and James were planning their wedding in a gorgeous Aspen Grove The setting was just like them; very natural, very subtle, very grounded and simply beautiful. As I got to know them I learned quickly that they were absolutely connected and also to the earth, and they were inspired in love by the classic children's book The Giving Tree. 
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In speaking with loved ones, I learned that the footprint they left on the earth was something that was very important to them. I reread The Giving Tree many times as I wrote and realized how much the symbolic elements of the text had in common with this couple. They cared deeply about the world around them, they knew that caring and giving to one another helps individuals feel sustained, and they wanted to live by this throughout their lives. It was an inspiring connection to write about! 

Uniquely them, they planted a sapling to unite them together. Symbolically this was a reminder of the importance to nourish each other in marriage with words of encouragement, trust and love. In front of their loved ones they watered the sapling. Just like the tree, marriages need that nourishment to grow into it's full potential. 

Their guests may remember the gorgeous day, the bright colors against the natural aspen grove, they may or may not remember the tree planting ceremony, but they certainly will remember how personal and natural this day was. Uniquely Coleen and James. And, for personal reasons as we planted that sapling, I implanted a special memory because as you may see in the photos for this wedding, I was pregnant with my son (my own little sapling!). 
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​I am honored to have been part of this beautiful union. ​

Incorporation of Couple's Inspiration 

Let your relationship and your love for each other be like this tree you plant today. Let it grow tall and strong. Let it stand tall during the harsh winds and rains and storms, and come through unscathed. Like a tree, your marriage must be resilient. It must weather the challenges of daily life and the passage of time. And just like the tree you are planting, marriage requires constant nurturing and nourishment. 

Ring Exchanges Customized to Theme

James, place the ring, a visual symbol of your love on Colleen’s finger and repeat, after me,
With this ring, I promise to be your giving tree. I will always nourish you and feed your soul so you can reach your fullest potential. 
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Guided Vows 

Colleen, will you promise to take James as your husband, your partner in life, sharing your path; equal in love, to be her companion and friend, as you combine soil of your live with hers. If so, declare to him, "I Will" 

Personal Touches about the Couple 

Coleen and James come together in nature today, which is not coincidental. As I have gotten to know the couple, this is ever so fitting...
Like the tree and the man in the story, you two are clearly a couple who are selfless with one another with your love. Today in front of your friends and family you are creating your own Giving Tree. This tree you create, the life you give to it, will be none other than yours to nourish.